I'm so sorry to catch up on your thread and read all of that, sorry I have been away, dealing with my own MLCer ;-) Your W is so unbelievable, fancy saying something like that.. she was pissed b/c I didn't thank her for being so willing to let D be in the wedding last summer
LET HER !??? Shes your D too and thats YOUR neice !?? I mean, who does she think she is!? Has she never heard of the Fathers for Justice movement (thats the UK version... [url]http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/f4j/[/url]) It makes me so mad! Girls need fathers. Shes so out of line, its untrue.
I agree with everyone, you need to drop the rope my friend, this is getting to be an abusive situation. You need to work on being polite and friendly and keeping it to finaces and childcare. You need to let her feel the full force of her decision.
I'd be interested to hear what the DB coach advises though, when is that?
Thanks so much for your words on my thread, as I said before, its so great to get a male perspective! The ony best male friend I have has advised me to go out, get drunk and sh*g a 20 year old! Tempting as it is ;-), I havent followed that advice...
Ali x Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread