I think she wants to be friends

[sleeper]

Thanks guys,

Yes I am still in love with my x-W. This is one reason I haven't dated. What would be the point?

She is still "in love" (OM's words) with me. Even OM sees it and on some level I believe she knows it too. Yes, x-W is "all messed up" (her words). Some of you describe her as "crazy" (no argument).

I do flip-flop. I'm still trying to figure this out. I struggle with what is the right thing to do. I'm not trying to score points. She expects me to do more and be there more (even now) than I am willing or comfortable to do.

I wasn't trying to tease any of you. The present financial issue has to do with a commercial property which is still in both of our names but she adamantly claims is hers. She didn't pay the property taxes so it was bought by a third party at Sheriff's sale. That's what she doesn't know. In the Great State of Confusion the original owner has 2-3 years to redeem the property. This AM I took a half measure in the sitch by paying current taxes to keep things from getting worse but not entirely rectifying the sitch. When she gets back I'll tell her about it and then decide if I'm going to help her more or not.