mcojh is from MN too and has clued me in to a few things. H had told me that he was told by the police officer that they would probably consider it the lowest offense possible. However, we won't know the actual level of the offense until he gets the paper work. I'm going to go to the Police Dept. tomorrow and ask for a copy of the report too. This just bites. I'm scared of how it will affect my insurance coverage too. I could lose my insurance too. I may end up taking H off of my vehicle earlier than anticipated. Anyone know how that's done when he's on the loan too? Do I have to completely refinance my loan? This could really put me in a bind.
Yes, I did have to drag D4 out of bed and down to the police station with me. I made her sit on H's lap as I talked to the officer. She had some questions for H the next morning.
I'm trying to imagine life with just me and D4. I know there's a better way to live for us, but it's still tough. I have a feeling that D4 and I will be doing a lot of cuddling at the beginning.....helping each other adjust. I thought I had a lot of things worked out and now H has added one more obstacle for me.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day