OK..... So this is a random comment.... And I honestly don't mean to offend. But I love the title of your thread. And every time I see it for some reason I am reminded of the Seinfeld episode, with the shrinkage. OK, said it was a random thought......
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There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.