what the hell happened to man up and this can be db'd?
Don't suggest to me that I'm contradicting myself, Blynd, because I am not.
You do need to man up and I do believe that almost any relationship can be DBed.
That said, what I DON'T believe is you'd even be having this issue right now had you stopped for 2 minutes and said to God "what do You think?".
No. You just jumped in ass over teacup because it all seemed so wonderful to you. YOU thought it was "meant to be" and that was good enough for you so why bother asking God? If it "feels" good it MUST be heaven sent, right? Hmmphhh.
You know how far we go back - since both of our first days on this site so you know I am your friend. In the spirit of friendship I'm going to tell you that I've been pissed at you since last night.
I'm going to tell you something and even though I might apologize for it later it won't change the fact that it's the truth - if this relationship does go belly up and those boys get hurt again (and her boy as well now) it is going to be just as much your fault as it is hers and all you had to do in the beginning was bring it before the Lord and seek His will, His blessing, His protection EVERYTHING that He has that sits untouched waiting for you to decide Richie ain't King of his world with it all going on again. If those boys get hurt, it's on you. Before you are anything, you are the spiritual leader of your house. I'm sorry that's an inconvenient truth for you.
I'm sorry to leave everybody else to mop up this mess but seeing someone that's had a blessing given to them that didn't turn right around and give it back to God for safekeeping is just more than I can take today.
