Cowboy up, and this can be DB'ed.

I think the frustration (late comer here) stems from the seeming tactics and expected response from those tactics.

Do things for you, not to ellicit a response.
Say things that you would say, maybe ask how but not what.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet