Sue,

Hugggs to you. What a weekend you had! You came through it amazingly and your H is still in denial. It was only a matter of time, but I was hoping when/if he was arrested it'd be more of an eye opener for him. I too wish they'd have been tougher on him so he couldn't just shrug it off as no big deal.
You didn't have to drag D4 out in the middle of the night to pick him up did you? Ya'll deserve SO much better.

You should be very very proud of yourself dear Sue. You're putting yourself in good position to separate from your H's downward spiral. There is a better way to live for you and D4. (((SUE)))