It hasn't been brought up again since the big blowout we had a few weeks ago. I swear I thought things were over that night, but ever since then things have been great.
I kind of want to bring it up again, but I am going to give it some time. I want him to want it too, and not just because I keep bugging him about it. I have been staying over there more and more and I really don't like to stay on week nights because it is just that much earlier I have to get up for work. He seemed a little disappointed that I didn't want to stay last night....so I am hoping that he will bring it up soon.
I also think he is reluctant because he doesn't want me to think it is for financial reasons. He wants to prove that he can do this on his own. I can respect that.
He emailed me to go to lunch today but I couldn't go, so asked for a rain check. I will see him tonight, we still haven't gotten a chance to watch Lost. We have been spending more and more time together.
I really do feel that OW is completely out of the picture now. I believe he was still talking to her for a while, but I just don't suspect it anymore.
We actually talked a lot about the type of women that "OW" are in general. He was...umm, impressed(?)...by how much insight I had on that. I just said trust me, I have read a lot of books and done a lot of research. I may get him to read that book yet!