but what I am saying is what if she never asks you about the stuff you left....

what if she already KNOWS

what if she really needs a break and you are planning for a scenerio that never happens

what if she never asks????

i mean she may not
she may know you love her and you honor her

she may not ever ask why you left things there


I know when people leave things it is because they are offering an opening later on

let her acknowldge that for 5 mins
let it sink in

stop planning the next move in a scenerio that may never happen

you will make yourself mental