I think you are on the right track.. Something you are doing is working. You really need to look at what is working beyond.. partying. You need to look at your mannerisms, your thoughts, your speech.. when things are going well and when they are not. Then compare how you were in each situation. To be honest my gut tells me just keep doing what you are doing.. then there is this little part that says be careful. This situation you are in could go bad quick. Its just really hard to give any solid advice in this situation because it does not fit the "norm".
Forrest, that has been the source of my confusion all along. There are some moments where I sense she is thinking about us and wants to say "don't get your hopes up", or I hear her say "I" and "me" in reference to a future.....but I am hard pressed to pinpoint down times or what I would call bad times.
I believe I have been very consistent in my mannerisms, thoughts and speech...and that is where she has noticed the biggest change. I talk a lot about the fun and partying, but every day I think about what I am saying and how it is being heard by her....and yesterday for me was the start of a return to some form of normalcy....I need to find out if that is what she is looking for, also.
If all she really wants to do is party every chance we get and let the truly important goals slide, then I have a bigger problem on my hands than I had imagined.
The beginning was hard, but as I "own" this personality again it becomes easier each day.
...and tell me your thoughts on why "This situation you are in could go bad quick"...I know there is nothing solid right now, and she has not given me any verbal indications that she is changing her mind....is that why you say that?
