He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[No Longer BH]

Ok, help!!!! WHat should I do? I just got this email from my H:

BH,

I just wanted let you know I am not trying to keep you hanging, or avoid responding. After this week I needed step away from everything in order to avoid spiraling into bad behaviors so took the weekend to just focus on things at the house and in my own garden. So I have not come to a place that I can give you any specific answers yet. In truth, I am looking forward to talking with IC in the hopes to help me with greater insight.



I did want to say that I have noticed changes for you. I have seen how you are working on you. In all of this I don’t want you to think I haven’t seen that and what it has meant for you. It is profound and so very important. I am just not sure, yet, what I feel that means to/for me. This isn’t to undermine or diminish the work you have done for you, just to say that I haven’t decided what I feel it means to me.



Responding to your messages it going to take me a little more time. I hope that you can see this is better than simply replying in the heat of all the emotions. Were I to have replied this weekend, it would have been much more of how I was on the phone Friday, and that is not where I want to be rooted.

H


Pleases, any suggestions????