Of course I did stupid stuff. In the beginning I pleaded with him to work on our marriage. He was as cold as ice.

Right before the divorce was final, I told him I wanted our relationship back and asked him to cancel the divorce.

I tried hugging him a couple of times, once he was responsive, the others he was repulsed by me.

There are many many more. Lately, I have detached more so I don't do many stupid things. The more you understand the process the better you do. The bottom line is THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO THAT WILL MAKE THEM SEE THE LIGHT. They have to find their own light. Let go, let God.....

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11