"gotta drop the pity parties. Do some crunches. Do some push-ups. Work on your core exercises."
Yes they are self defeating and lead you NOWHERE. Got up to late this morning to workout will hit it hard tonight it definitely helps me be more positive.
"You'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure out what she is thinking. You can't read a WAW that's why you have no idea. One day she will be fine, the next day she'll suck. She's riding a coaster, let her ride and you stand to the side and wave as she go's round and round. Just be prepared to comfort her when she gets off the coaster and she's throwing up. When she comes to talk or brings something up, actively listen and validate her feelings. Give her a shoulder to cry on and be her sounding board. Be her "rock"."
Here is some irony for you, she can't stand amusement park rides makes her literally sick to her stomach LOL, yet she is on ONE heck of a ride now. I will not get on it. At this point in time any convo we have is still through texting, god I hate texting, but I guess it's communicating at any rate, it does make it easy not to react gives me time to answer, and to validate in a manner as to not say the wrong thing.
"You be patient, she will look you in the eye. You don't backslide, you man up. You be better. I guarentee she will at the least, look you in the eye."
I will not let her lead me down a cheeseless tunnel, act not react be in control of myself and then there is no room for backsliding, workingout is helping me 'manup' I know I can't control the sitch just sucks.
