You have to start from scratch and build "something". The big key in my mind is communication. You have to open the lines up so you can talk openly. The hard part is you are still fighting all the stuff the WAS is holding against you. You are the only one that is starting from scratch. You starting from scratch we will call.. True Giving.
My question there is when and how do I open those lines of communication? I am still, at this point, waiting for her to give some positive verbal communication that she is willing, correct?