"There are several economic factors playing a role in how slow things are moving. And I am sure if that wasnt a factor she very well may have left a while ago."
We are in the same boat, and I firmly believe if we had both been financially able to go out on our own she would have been gone a long time ago....heck, it could have been me that left, with the way things have been over the years....sad, but I AM SO thankful I have this chance now because of that.
Thanks for the input, and same to you guy.....it's a tough deal, and I really do not see how situations like ours really fit with many of the scenarios I see in the book or on here....they don't fit the "norm" as Forrest told me.
I have come to look at this time with her now as a gift...a last chance, and work constantly to deal with the ups and downs, though honestly, the downs lately are few.....a "don't get you hopes up" or two the last month or so.....still feels like a stab to the heart, even if it doesn't happen very often......
I have been trying to stay with my original post which is in my signature, if you are interested. I will try to get over to read your story....good to hear from someone in a similar situation.
