Hello sh- Congratulation on your new home. I hope you are handy when it comes to making minor repairs. I have never lived in an older place just for that reason.
I am sure your H is curious about your new place...invite him over if you feel comfortable about it.
You did the right thing by telling him he can come and get his things if he wants them. Why should you have to take his stuff to his mom's?
I hope your S had a wonderful birthday. Oh how I miss my kids being little...enjoy them. They are so much fun...and so much work...but worth it. Count your blessings.
