Onward and upward

[mishka422]

My last thread finally locked. I don't know where to go from here but upward sounds like a winner to me!

I feel like I've driven H back to defensive mode by bringing up his visitation with our son. I'm just tired of him having everything his way and our son losing out because of it. "Disneyland Dad" is annoying me. He only does the fun stuff with S13 and doesn't do the day to day discipline, homework, chores, etc. I know I need to get over it but it's easier said than done.

MichelleLT - Boy, I've got a double whammy then don't I? My H was a Marine when we got M (Desert Storm vet) and now a police officer. He was always a little on the tense side because of some experiences he had in Iraq but now he's so stressed all the time that he doesn't sit still ever. He can't enjoy a crowded restaurant because he's constantly in "watch mode" waiting for something to go down. This area is extremely affluent and the crime level is so low that it was voted the #7 place in America to live. He's got issues in a BIG way!

I'll pop over into your thread and see what's been going on. Hopefully more fun than I'm having.