Heartsick Over The Big D

[cat03]

we DB because we believed in our vows, we loved those people and at the time we thought we had a chance.
On some cases, the WAS came through and decided to work on building their Ms again, on the other hand other WAS still had their heads up their butts and wanted to stay in la-la land (A, MLC, etc) and decided not to come back (and showed what kind of people they degenerated to).

At some degree I DB with my eyes closed, not seeing how much of a liar stbx was, the MC asked me the second time I found him cheating "and what are you going to do if you find out he is cheating on you again?" Well, I did find out and still I forgave him and wanted him back not realizing the man had no concern for me as a person nor was able to love me as a husband and treat me right.

I DBd for love, for my kids. I have no regrets, I went down fighting and one day my kids might ask for the truth and they'll know that mom gave it her all and 110% more. Just now I realize I'm better off without the person he is now, he never changed nor wanted to.