Jeff, I'm glad you're OK. Sometimes things have to get worse before they get better (or, as my sister likes to say, "God will break you before He fixes you), but unfortunately the wayward spouse has to ALLOW themselves to be broken, and some simply aren't ready for that.
I'll look forward to hearing more as you get time and feel up to it, but I wanted to just let you know I was thinking about you this morning. We may not always agree on tactics, but I really admire your strength and character.
