I said "idiot" outloud and D16 heard me. I can't believe I said that in front of her. I appologized to her and told her he isn't and that I was just frustrated. I've been kicking myself ever since.
So do you want your D's to think that you're a saint? Is it really wrong to let your D's know you are human and that sometimes your H actions bother you?
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I need to find a way to get him involved by consulting with him re: D's.
I think you know this may be futile...but it might help you feel better just to know you have done all that you could to get him involved. IMO, the only thing you really can do is let your H know what is going on with your D's and the rest is up to him. He may eventually get it...or he may not.
