OK, thanks. I did read that book and I think I figured out her LL but no change in that department. Very thick and high walls around her. Totaly detached and not thinking about consequences at all (kids, living sitch, finance and more).
Me:38 Her:37 M:17Y Children:S13-D10 Bomb:Aug2007 W move out:18Okt2007 R w/OM official:28Nov2007 "End" of R w/OM: 04Mar2008 W initiating pos. contact again:25Feb2008 D finalized:Mar30 Moved back:18Mar2008 Regrets moving back:19Mar2008 Now:XW walked again