Sex with Estranged Spouse Here is an article that Michelle wrote that could help you when deciding about having sex with your H. I don't think it is always bad and is just a very personal decision. It is possible it can trigger emotions for your H.
Originally Posted By: 7 Year Itch
Because he does still say nice things to me, tells me I'm a great Mom, tells me he thinks I'm a good person. He's just matter of fact that he no longer loves me, and knows he never will again. Poof.
I swear that is what is just killing me, is that I read stories on here with people rebuilding from FAR worse than where we have been. Yes my H just "doesn't have anymore to give?".
That is how my H was, which could be why I am drawn to your situation. There are a lot of similarities. He never said anything bad about me and said I was a very good wife, a good person, etc. I wasn't even sure what to work on, and I didn't feel that we had even grown apart. It was all just so confusing. He kept saying he just didn't love me anymore and he was done trying.
I am glad you had a good weekend. It sounds like you did a really good job GAL and you sound really good....a lot better than I did at the beginning of this.
