Hope4us struggle, part 4

[Hope4us]

Not much to say on the home front. WW was pretty decent yesterday, talkative most of the day....

But what is it with waywards that they can't share even the most basic info with you? Later in the afternoon DS16 came downstairs and said "I know you're both off work tomorrow...." and I looked at WW and said "I didn't know you were on vacation tomorrow" and she said (in a voice that's hard to explain, not sarcastic, not angry, but not normal), "I took the whole week off". What would be the harm in telling me that? There have been a number of opportunities to share that with me over the weekend, but no....

DS19 and his friend went to the concert last night. I was going to drive them back to school when they got home and then stay the night with him and come home today, but he TM'd me at 12:30 and said they were just leaving the concert and thought they'd spend the night at home and we could just leave early today so they could both make their 8:00 am classes. A few minutes later WW rolled over from her couch-bed and said in a really snappy voice "are they about home"? I told her they just left and why didn't she just go upstairs and sleep and I'd sleep on the couch when they got home. She turned over in a huff and then about 2 minutes later got up, slamming stuff around and went upstairs. It's just amazing how self-absorbed waywards are. Man, they're college kids having a good time, you don't have to work tomorrow so you can sleep all you want and all you can think about is how they're affecting YOU.

Just another thing to think about while I consider if I even want to try to make this work.

Anyway, we got up at 5:00 and drove back to school in time for their classes. I'm now in my son's dorm room waiting for him to get back from class so we can go get a cup of coffee or some breakfast/lunch and spend some more quality time together. The more time I spend with the boys without WW around, the more I begin to think we'd be better off without her.