Thanks HIC, I am really surprised myself to be honest. I really don't know how I got where I am so fast but I am just happier when she is not around and I think that our smaller family is actually healthier as a trio.
You know, for many years I felt like I was the one who was not getting my needs met. I always longed for her to be more affectionate and passionate. I always longed for her to encourage me and build me up as her man who would do anything for her. I stayed in the marriage because that is what I believed was right even though there were things missing for me. I felt that as an adult I was supposed to put my feelings aside and do the right thing for my kids and love my wife for who she was. Sad to say I guess that is what has made detaching so easy for me.
