well we did go and get the stuff. the way i see it, it stops me from calling her because she wants her space. if it was anything else but those books and family pictures, and herlooms, i would have left it. i left the ring and my house key. she didn't take down any pictures. my brother says i don't communicate well and that i am too uptight. he said if she knows me she will understand why i did this. it may have been a mistake, time will tell. if she calls she calls i guess. everyone seems to think she will. if she asks about the key and ring, i will tell her that i left them for her, i want her to call me when she wants to talk. hopefully that's enough.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.