The experience has allowed me to at least open myself up to the idea of possibly dating again.... now whether or not I actually do???? we'll just have to see if the next guy who catches my eye is SINGLE first!!!!
Pretty good first item for you check off list
As they say, you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the keeper (although I ain't kissin' none till I'm not even sure when. Engagement? Wedding? Wow, just typing that seem prudish but there is some good logic behind it). I sensed I was ready and then started to think I found someone worth pursuing. It was very exciting and we started to get to know each other better but then came to a point where she felt she wanted to stay friends. (I have later found that I don't feel we are match and so it all worked out just fine and we do have a very good friendship). A couple months later I ran into a girlfriend from 20 years ago and we started talking and seeing each other to reaquaint our selves with each other. Though she was now an extremely committed christian (which brought me great joy), I determined we were not a match.
It was exciting exploring the possibilities and doing so in a totally honorable way resulted in our parting not causing harm to either party.
So now, I know it can be exciting and I am ready for that but I also know it is ok to realize the personalities or vision can be different and it is ok to say "thanks but no thanks."
Enjoy the process, make some friends and trust that God has someone out there for you
Committed2Him- "C2H" All Things (Back from Spain!)...18
