I think he is avoiding you because avoidance is easier than dealing with anything. Have you ever made such a mess of your kitchen that you look at it and think, maybe I should just leave this all behind and move somewhere clean? I know I have. A few weeks ago I went out of town for 4 days. When I came back my son told me that when I left one of the dogs got sick and pooped all over the floor in one of the bedrooms. I said, "What did you do?" He said, "I closed the door." That's a good male way of dealing with a mess. Just close the door and walk away. With luck, he will never have to clean it up. Maybe the Mommy (maid) will come back and take care of it, like she takes care of everything else. I'm suggesting that your husband knows he has made a huge mess of your marriage, and he finds it easier to just close the door and walk away.
