THANK YOU PEACE OF MIND FOR YOUR ADVICE. WHAT YOU SAID IS SO TRUE.I cant seem to focus or plan for anything at the moment. I am living in rented accomodation,my job stops in July and Im worried about money. As I said I am afraid the settlement, if we do divorce, will anger him. But I dont know how I could manage financially otherwise.Im hoping we can discuss an informal arrange ment and stay married for now as he seems in no hurry to divorce- he says"because of how i feel about you" but I suspect the settlement and having his cake are both factors. I am trying to ask myself "what do you want?" but other than to be back with him I dont know. Thats pathetic isnt it? Its just that everything in my life-job house relationship and financial security has been taken away all at once!
