I know it would be sooo hard, but what about just flat telling him, "Look H, I'm not leaving here to sleep tonight, so if you come here, you will sleep on the couch, floor or wherever, but your done driving me out of MY house."

Might not help, but you shouldn't have to leave, especially when he doesn't come there every night.

I hear you about wanting peace though, Stars, there are days I would give it all away for just some peace.

(((Starshyne)))

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option