Can I ask a question? Why are you shuttling back and forth? If H is refusing to leave right now, why not just go and stay with your parents for awhile? Maybe, just maybe it will give you some peace and make him miss you. Even if he does not miss you, clearing you head would be worth it. Again, I dont know your entire sitch when it comes to your family, but if they are willing to help you out, it might be an option.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008