I once read a post where someone asked, "If you coud snap your fingers and be divorced right now, would you do it? No going back, its just done. And if you did, what would it change?" It sounds to me like your answer is yes and that it would make your H leave your home. Are you truly done with this relationship or are you reacting to the emotions you are feeling, hoping the D will make the hurt go away, becasue the hurt will still be there even after the ink is dry. Maybe there is another way to go about getting him to leave that would let you get a breather and allow for your heart to heal. After you have had some time, then you can see if you are ready to move on or if you are just reacting to the situation.
No matter what you do, you know we will all support you. It has been a very difficult journey for you and no one blames you if you are done. You wanted to give you my opinion.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
