I don't have to "file" at all. The L is going to write up this settlement, giving H his half of the house. If he agrees then he has so many days to get out of the house and we are divorced. If he does not agree, then I will have to file, have him served and all of the traditional ways of handing it.

Seeing her drive the car am paying for just made me mad for awhile. It hasn't changed anything that I had planned. I told H on Saturday that I was going to get things started with the lawyer on Monday. Well...I really want to talk to the pastor first, so whenever I get that done then I will get to the lawyer.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08