Originally Posted By: AmyC
Originally Posted By: blyndfaith
right but it's not a big deal to her at this point. you know the whole i'm so sorry thing. i don't know, that's what i have a hard time with. it just sounds like she feels that she's done. if that's how she feels today(i know tomorrow could change) i dont' want to leave them there and make her think it's an in for me. that would be pressure. it will be easier to sit still, and not worry about contact until she is ready(or i am ready) and i don't need anything from her


Stop making everything a strategy.

Just chill out until your head is on straight.



Exactly the point dude, I doubt very seriously that she is coming up with strategies and analyzing all of this like you are. Just sit still......


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09