I don't understand why I need the 48 hour rule. This has been my plan for awhile (see previous posts). I was going to 1. Wait for school to end (check) 2. Inform H of what is going on (check) 3. Talk to pastor (have appointment for that this week) 4. Have lawyer write up settlement 5. Look over settlement 6. H comes in an read settlement and hopefully sign 7. Be divorced by the end of the summer


I have been thinking and praying about this for 12 days now. I am sick of having to leave my house each night to sleep. I am sick of being treated like scum. I have had it. There is nothing left for me to think about. If between now and whenever I can get into see the lawyer my H snap out of his dream world and is willing to listen and act on the things I have layed out, then I will be happy to reconcile and work on things. But I am not waiting around for years. If my H was willing to get his own place and we could be seperated for awhile, I would be willing to wait. He does not want that at all. Divorce is my only real choice right now that will give me any peace.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08