You have GOT to stop the reactivity and work your plan. All you did tonite was lower yourself to your husband's level.
OK, Puppy I agree with the first part, but you have got to be kidding that Sara lowered herself to her H's level--she couldn't do that if she tried to the rest of her life!!!! Letting the OW drive the car Sara pays for? Who wouldn't be mad at that??? I know we all try to DB & not to react, but we are all human, too...
Sara, maybe you shouldn't decide anything today, but think for a day or 2? (remember the 48-hour rule) Karen
Karen