My wife aged CONSIDERABLY during her affair. I swear, three months aged her about three YEARS!
I find that interesting and the other comments too. My H looks horrible since this happened. He used to be good-looking, I have lots of pictures where he looks very handsome, but since he started with OW he's lost a bunch of his hair and just looks bad.
One of my friends' parents saw H a month or 2 ago and when they saw him were saying how creepy he looked, not knowing anything about him. And then my friend told them the whole story of H and his OW, etc. I wonder if sometimes what kind of person you are being shows up on the outside or are they depressed or what is going on with that? Karen
