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Jeff, gotta admit,your last post yesterday choked me up a bit. I thought about you last night. I hope things are going as well as you could expect.

If she went out last night, of all nights, then Puppy is right, screw her.

Have fun with the kiddos and God bless.


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Originally Posted By: hopeful4her

If she went out last night, of all nights, then Puppy is right, screw her.


I remember my H did the same kind of thing--he was gone most of the last day or two before he moved out which I thought was awful b/c that was his last time with the kids under the same roof and all. But I wonder if the WAS does that b/c they don't want to face what they are about to do, the kids and thinking about hurting them, maybe they are having lots of guilt, etc. I'd like to think that & not that they're just terrible people anyway!!! Karen


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We can only hope that they are so racked with guilt, that they get migraines.

And they are just a bit terrible, too.


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Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

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I didn't expect you to get on today. Please know that my heart goes out to you, my prayers are with you.
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Thought of you 1st thing today, Jeff. I know today is going to be difficult. I will pray for you at church. Stay strong and love those kiddos a lot today. We are all here for you!

Sara


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Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
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Jeff, when you get a chance, please let us know how you are doing.

We care.

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Just bumping you up, hoping you'll check in.

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Jeff you have been on my mind all day today. Anytime I saw today's date I just thought of you. I am not sure if you have it better off or worse than me. You knew the date that you spouse was leaving and mine just sprung it on me. But still...I know it is hard. Please check in with us.

Sara


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Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
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Just checking on you. Let us know how you are whenever you are ready. We are here for you.
((((((Jeff))))))
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Jeff maybe you can just do a super quick post when you have the time so everyone knows you're ok! Don't make us sic the moderators on you!!! And you know we will!!! \:\) Karen


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