fact: she told me about dude in the first place and the guilt that she had. she told me that she felt guilty and not good enough for me. and that she was afraid that i was going to say screw it down the line and leave her fact: i love her and i want to work things out at a much slower pace, unless that means her continuing to be less healthy fact: she has been distant the last week or so
maybe: she is running because she is scared maybe: she backed off because she was sensing something in me(she said she does that) maybe: this dude really did have an effect on her maybe: she just decided i'm not what she wants maybe: she lied for 6 or so months maybe: she loves me maybe: she doesn't
i don't know
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
i have thanked God for her everyday since we got together. i believed that this was his will. ugh, we both did. we both had so many frogs.
okay, i am goign to advise myself like i would someone else
i would tell them that you need to do what you say you are going to do. then be quiet, wait until it feels right not to wait. i would tell them to leave the ring if she leaves it there, because that would leave the door open. i have told people to let them keep the gifts, but don't be inistant. i have told people that om/ow or not that they are thinking about you. not to worry and work on yourself. i would advise them to focus on your house and your children. getting things back to normal will be good for them. i would ay to get things back to normal and wait, that she will find a reason to contact. thank you
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
it would be easier to walk away. the stage is set for it. it doesn't feel right to do so., it's not the same as before. it's different in the respect that i was the stronger one in the R this time. and i was perhapse percieved weak cuz of some stress. she will miss the fun, the surveys, the wrestling, all of it and try to make contact(no one is me). it will be my job to be me when she makes contact.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
remember to talk richie when she calls, be yourself not what you think she wants you to be. she wants you to be YOU!!!! looking up not down. smart@$$, charmingly sarcastic. caring and respectful. be yourself. get back to being you. speak as if nothing happened, conveying that you WANT her, not NEED her. wait for her to bring up R then be natural in responses
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
be honest dont' bring up R, but don't dread it. keep it simple convey whats important the space was good for you too nothing has changed ask her HOW she is doing, not WHAT she is doing make sure she knows that you want her to be happy and healthy and you hope she is sorting things out. if she says she misses you.... hmmm, no idea for that
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
I don't know who said it, but someone suggested you not get your stuff tonight. I think I agree with that. All of this has happened so damn quick. What exactly is the hurry other than you said some stupid shitt to her?
All those Maybe's that are running through your head, holy crap, I took 3 tylenol half way through your post. I can only imagine how your melon is feeling. Read a fricken book or something dude, but get the hell out of your brain.
Do something with the boys tonight. Play monopoly or something. Whatever you do, forget about your sitch for a while.
i know i lost it, i'm good. i don't have the boys tonight. my mind has bee racing today becaus i haven't had the boys so i am processing everything right now. i am glad that i am getting feedback from yall
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
