f'ing edit. i told her i was going to get the stuff cuz i was mad, yes. but, now that i said i was going to, if i don't will that not make it look manipulative? i am confused
Great day in the morning, child!
Is this the artist formerly known as blyndfaith?
Dude, leave the stuff where it is. You don't have to give her any kind of excuse. It ain't nothing that won't keep.
YOU however, are wound about as tight as an 8 day clock and you need to get some perspective - and a good old fashioned GRIP - before you make one more move, send one more message or have one more conversation with that girl.
Stand down and go dark.
FOR YOUR OWN SAKE as much as for the sake of the relationship.