It is sad that when I look around, all these people are getting divorced. The news just report who's having an affair. I see friends who complain about their husbands and I see signs of possible midlife crisis. Some of these people I am only friends with, but not very close, and I feel bad not saying much. I sometimes want to tell them, "watch your husband, he is going to cheat on you. But you know, if he is in midlife crisis, it will happen and there is not much you can do to prevent it." I usually just try to give a little bit of advice like "Well, if he really wants that sport car, let him buy it. It's only money."