k i feel i need to work this out with you guys so i don't make anymore mistakes

issue
I got her an iPod for mothersday and "the ring"

I fully expect her to have those ready for me to take. What should I do.

This is my thought, I should leave them, with the ring wrapped up in a note saying keep this until you can look in the mirror and tell yourself that you no longer love me.
is that too much?
what are your thoughts, that is what my heart says to do

I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.