Thanks Nik. I appreciate the advice. I guess I was looking at things differently. The crazy thing about the lesbian community is that you usually part friends. At least, that's been my experience. After all we've shared, I just thought it would have been "nice" for her to call and explain - "I'm moving to Timbuktu with New GF. Just wanted you to hear it from me before anyone else." At least, that's what kind of relationship she and her ex had/have. Her ex actually called several times crying, etc. while I was there and GF NEVER told her to "leave me alone." Why is it different this time?
I know...move on, detach, get a life, give her up. I have no choice. Thanks for the hugs. I need them.