You're welcome, Snod. In all honesty, my divorce was simple. She had an attorney draw up papers. I told them what to change and that was that.
And the NY laws are tough. I was amazed considering how liberal a state it is. And just a little personal note, if I could do my life again, I would be a constitutional lawyer.
Anyway to MrsH, hang in there. Your life is what you make it and you will get through this no matter what happens.