this was in an email she sent to me may 8th I fell in love with you for your caring, gentle manner, and you're ability to make me feel so safe and loved. I love how you parent your children, I love how you care for your mother and brother, I love how you have this uncanny ability to make me laugh when I want to cry. You are a rock, for more people than just me, and you and someone I am proud to have my son model after! You are the true definition of what a man is, and don't ever question my love for you, ever!
She asked you not to question her love for you. Three weeks ago. Please stop any and all contact with her. You've stated your case. She knows you love her, now give her time to sort things out in her head!!
Her love has not changed Richie. I truly believe this.
Even tho she said your a "Team" and your going through financial problems, this might give her "uncertainty". It shouldn't, but then hey, we all thought at one point when we came to this board that the promises of love we had were supposed to last forever.
Her mind is trying to deal with uncertainty that was already there when you met her. Uncertainty from the demise of her marriage.
I don't know about how the others on here who are now divorced, but I sure can tell you it messed me up bigtime!!
Yes I jumped into a relationship I wasn't ready for, it took me months to realize that. But now, I know I should have stayed alone to give myself time to heal properly and love myself and find me again.
I found trusting men again very hard. Too hard. So I disengaged also.
Doesn't mean I dont care for this man, just means I need time to sort my uncertainties about life out, preferably on my own.
If you don't need your furniture Richie, just leave it.
Slow down, breathe and no MORE CONTACT.
Like Amy said......women hate that.
We'll be here for you sweetie!!
Hugs,
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
