B, Let the situation settle. If you and her are meant to be, the other person will disappear. The more you try to talk to her, the more she'll pull away. Give her some space to realize what she may be losing.
I do not think the financial situation is what tripped her out. I think she just needs time to make sure this is the right thing for her.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
