my problem is that 80% of people say she is coming back sooner rather than later, that she is just scared. i don' tunderstand how, but that's what they say. i see it as her blowing me off and hooking up with another dude that she sees greener pastures with, and that if that's who she truly is, then why would i want her
This is a valid point. I think that Bwolr and myself are saying that since you DON'T KNOW you need to at the very least not burn bridges.
Stand down for now. You're treating her like your XW.