To Forest, everything will be okay.....I just have such a hard time understanding some things you say and feel that one thing in particular you said about me was......shall I say....incorrect....but I'm willing to forget & drop it. I had about decided to just not post wherever you were, but I don't want it to be that way. It hurt for a while, but what Lan said is true.
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We've all got our hearts in the right place and each others best interest at heart so I hope it is still all love between us.
One thing's for sure and that is we both love Lan and are going to work together to help him through this till he feels like everything is great again.
To Lan, I'm glad that you went ahead and told your wife about the trip. I suppose it did bring back some bad memories when she gave you that look, but maybe it was more of wondering what you had done rather than her being "caught" at something. We will certainly pray that was it! If she is beginning to show excitement now, then that is a good sign. Now, she can have fun in planning what she is going to wear and all that stuff that females like to do.
I'm really hoping big that this trip will be a great time for both of you and that you can once again relax around each other and feel like your young selves again and just have FUN! You deserve it!
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
