Think of this as an opportunity to do another 180. You get the chance not to be in control, you get the chance just to trust your own instincts as the situation unfolds. You don't have to have everything planned out - feel the fear and do it anyway!
He is the one that is missing out on fabulous T. Just know that you are hot and attractive and then wait to see what happens. It might be helpful for you to look at your worst case scenario - look and see that even if that happens you will be OK. And if you feel yourself getting upset just accept the situation as it is "e.g. I accept that BF is seeing someone else, I dont like it but I accept it.... or I accept that BF wants to kiss me, I'm scared but I'm going to accept it".
I dont know why I'm giving advice - you know what to do - you are going to rock his world!!
