I really can't believe that JA is pumping your 7 year old for information!! That really pisses me off!~ Doesn't he realize the damage he is doing??
MrsH, if he just shows up, go out...take the boys to a playground or something. Do you have any friends in the area who don't care if you just stop by? you could get the boys all excited if JA pulls up and surprise them with "we are going to ....house to play!"
JA needs more than a 2x4. He should be utterly ashamed of himself!
