The thing is, is I have a Newcomer journal, and I"m currently doing the LRT. I don't want him to come in here and see all my posts and see that I'm DBing, ya know?
His thing is he things most of our problems could be solved except the sex issue (which I'm totally confident it could be) and he now no longer loves me, and he doesn't see how that could possibly come back. I mean how do you combat that? It doesn't matter that I tell him of numerous people that have been where he is, and have found their way back. He believes ALL of those people must have had "something" he doesn't because he is DONE and KNOWS he is done (these exact words I've heard WAY too much lately).
Which is why I"m in the LRT right now, because he just will not budge or be open to anything.
Yet, we had sex again on Friday night (but he's not attracted to me). He confuses me so much.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
